Q: What is freebirth, and how do you support mothers who choose this option?
A: Freebirth is a conscious decision to give birth outside of a medical setting, without the assistance of a healthcare provider. This decision is deeply personal, often rooted in a desire for autonomy, privacy, and trust in the body’s natural process. I offer virtual support to freebirthing mothers, helping you make the safest, most informed choices by providing guidance, resources, and emotional support throughout your pregnancy and birth process. In some states, I also offer in-person emotional and physical support and consultation to ensure you feel empowered, prepared, and confident.

Q: How can you help me if I choose freebirth?
A: My role is to support you in creating a safe and informed birth experience, offering both emotional and practical guidance. I provide:

• Virtual consultations to discuss your plans, assess your health, and ensure you’re making the best decisions based on your unique circumstances.
• Access to evidence-based resources to help you understand your choices and options, whether that’s regarding nutrition, positioning, or the steps to take in case of an emergency.
• Emotional support to help you feel empowered and confident in your choice, addressing any fears or concerns you may have leading up to your birth.
• Physical support and hands-on consultation in select states, including comfort measures, hands-on guidance, and in-person emotional support.

Q: Is freebirth safe?
A: Freebirth can be a safe option for some women, particularly those who have had previous positive birth experiences and are well-prepared. However, it’s important to understand the risks and be informed about what may happen during labor and delivery. My goal is to help you assess whether freebirth is the best choice for you, taking into account your health, the health of your baby, and any potential risks. I will work with you to help you plan for the unexpected, ensuring you are prepared for every possibility.

Q: What do I need to prepare for a freebirth?
A: Preparation is key to ensuring your safety and confidence. Here’s what we will focus on:

• Physical Preparation: We will discuss what supplies you might need, such as clean towels, birthing pool (if desired), sterile gloves, and any tools that might help with comfort or emergencies.
• Emergency Plans: Although freebirth is about trusting the body, it’s crucial to have a contingency plan in case of complications. We’ll go over the nearest hospitals, how to handle emergencies, and signs to watch for during labor.
• Education: We’ll ensure you have the latest, evidence-based information to help guide your decisions during labor. This includes understanding your body’s signals, positioning techniques, and how to support both yourself and your baby.
• Emotional and Mental Preparation: Freebirth can be an emotional journey. I’ll provide emotional support, tools to manage anxiety, and help you build confidence in your ability to birth without medical intervention.

Q: Will you be present at my birth?
A: Depending on your location and the legalities in your state, I may be able to provide in-home emotional and physical support during your freebirth. If I cannot attend in person, I offer continuous virtual support, providing reassurance and guidance via video or phone throughout your labor. Whether virtually or in person, I’m committed to ensuring you feel supported and prepared for your experience.

Q: Can you help me if I change my mind during labor?
A: Absolutely. Birth plans can evolve, and it’s important to have the flexibility to change your approach if needed. I’m here to support you regardless of the decisions you make during labor. If you choose to transfer to a hospital or seek medical assistance, I will help you make that transition smoothly while respecting your birth preferences.

Q: What if something goes wrong during my freebirth?
A: Although complications are rare, it’s important to be prepared for the unexpected. We will work together to create a contingency plan, including clear steps to take if you experience signs of distress or need medical attention. I will guide you through the process of making the safest decisions for you and your baby in any situation. In all cases, I’ll be there to help you make the best decisions for your birth and your health.

Q: What if I’m unsure whether freebirth is the right choice for me?
A: If you’re uncertain, I’m here to help you weigh the pros and cons of freebirth in a non-judgmental space, but I do feel strongly that people choosing to birth in sovereign fashion should feel a deep personal level for accountability for their birth. This, however, doesn’t mean that if something goes differently than you expect, you should feel guilty or feel blame. Life and death is in God’s hands, no matter how much the medical community believes otherwise. Only you can decide if you are a good candidate for freebirthing, as it is not right for every family. If you are hiring me to support you in freebirthing, I will not make any decisions for you. I can serve as a resource for information and ideas, but you are in charge of your experience, and to some degree of your outcome also. Even the best laid plans are not guaranteed a particular outcome. You must accept that when freebirthing. Together, we can explore your goals, any potential risks, and how you feel about labor and birth. I provide you with the tools and resources you need to make an informed, empowered decision that feels right for you and your baby. Whether you choose freebirth or opt for a different type of birth plan, my goal is to support you in making the choice that aligns with your needs, values, and safety.

Q: How can I get started with your support for freebirth?
A: First let us connect to see if working together is a good mutual fit. You can reach out to me via the contact page to schedule an initial consultation, either virtually or in-person (depending on your location). During this consultation, we will discuss your birth preferences, your health, and what you need to begin preparing for your freebirth. I will work closely with you to help you feel confident, prepared, and empowered every step of the way.